We both agreed we are not going to have sex till we are married but it happened by mistake. All we’ve been doing was just to kiss, touch and caress each other. But on this fateful day, we got carried away. We didn’t even know what led us into sex. It was a very big mistake. The devil really caught us sir!
Above was his regret. It was sad and I sympathized with him but I also told him the truth which has been helping him since then.
The truth is this
It becomes extremely difficult to stay away from sex the moment you start doing foreplay. Albert Einstein is one of the most influential physicist in history and say “If you can drive safely while kissing then you are simply not giving the kiss the attention it deserves.” In other words, it is difficult to kiss, smooch and caress without going all the way.
Kissing, cuddling, smooching, caressing and every other form of foreplay is called Sexual Stimulation. Sexual Stimulation is expected to take place before sexual intercourse. Therefore, if you sincerely don’t want to do sex before marriage then you should as well stay away from sexual stimulations. It is just common sense of physiology. Foreplay magnifies sexual passion.
The more you kiss, cuddle, smooch, touch and caress the closer you both are to fornication. Most times, for us Christians, fornication is not what we fall into. We often walk into it and the walk path is foreplay. So it is not about devil pushing you or tempting you, you are the one tempting yourselves each time you engage in foreplay. Avoid the walk path of foreplay and you are safe.
“Present your BODY as a living sacrifice, holy and acceptable unto God” is the instruction in Romans 12:1. God is interested in what you do with your tongue, mouth, lips, breasts, buttock and each part of your body and not just your genitals. They all your erogenous organs that must be kept pure in your premarital relationship .
So just calm yourself down. You have no reason to rush anything. After all it will all be yours except you are not serious about getting married to each other. If you’ll be getting married then just chill. Avoid Foreplay! Foreplay and sex are the full package. Keep the whole package till Marriage.
God bless you!